Are you crushing on a girl who has you firmly in the friend-zone? That dreaded ‘just friends’ space can be frustrating, but following these simple tips just may shake things up and get you out of the friend-zone and into the boyfriend territory.
Avoid the Friendzone With Phone Sex Chat
First, don’t be constantly available and at her beck and call. Act like you are too busy to entertain her when she is bored, even if you aren’t busy. By making your time a commodity she won’t be able to take for granted that you are going to come running anytime she chooses.
Second, pretend you have met someone online. Just casually mention you have met a cool girl, don’t give many details let her imagination run wild. Next time she asks you to do something say no, you have plans to game or watch a movie with your online love interest. This increases your value and how she responds to taking a back seat when it comes to your time and attention will tell you a lot.
Finally, have some fun with other girls on phone sex chat. Broadening your focus beyond your ‘friend’ will be good for you and show her you aren’t her bitch. Phone sex chat is free for everyone to try so there’s plenty of singles and couples who are local to you looking to connect for spicy adult encounters. Phone sex chat is a great place to have anonymous sexy phone fun. Give the friend-zone the boot and connect with girls who wanna have fun at phone sex chat today!
Are you ready to explore other people’s bodies but don’t want to deal with the messy aftermath? With phone sex, you can experience the highlights of a sexy orgy without having to worry about the clean up. There are hundreds of single men and women on the chat lines and there is always someone to speak to and hook up with! The community of people on the chat lines are typically open and willing to try new things and many of them would be happy to experience a hot phone orgy.
Have an Orgy Without Any of The Clean Up
There is so much you can experience on the chat lines. You can make genuine connections that blossom into rewarding relationships from friendship, bootie calls and to something more long-term romantic. Just like in-person dating, people on the chat lines are into an array of different things. Some men are looking for a simple hook up and others are interested in friendship. Whatever you’re looking for, you can find it on the phone.
You are likely to know in a matter of minutes if it’s a good connection with the other person on the phone. This is because people tend to be direct and communication is often open and honest. If one caller isn’t a good fit just say goodbye and hang up the call. When you’re ready, you can start a new call.
There are so many genuine connections you can make and it’s totally worth giving it a try. To get started, just give the chat line a ring and start speaking. These sex chat lines are always open so don’t worry if it’s early in the morning or late at night, there will always be somebody to speak to. You can speak to single folks that reside in your area or that live somewhere far away from you.
One of the best ways to show a person on the telephone that you care and that you’re interested in getting to know her or him is to practice active listening. Active listening is a technique that allows you to really take in what another person is saying and remember it. It can show another person empathy and really make another person feel comfortable with you.
How to Be An Active Listener on The Chat Lines
With phone dating hotlines, one of the most important skills to cultivate is active listening because that’s one of the main elements of using the phone correctly. On the phone with another you speak, and you listen. Sharpening your listening skills can help you in all kinds of ways on and off the chat lines.
Tips to consider when trying to be an active listener is to pay attention to what is being said and acknowledge what you heard and show that you understand what is being communicated. Providing feedback to what you hear guides the conversation and allows the speaker to know that you are engaged and care about what is being said to you.
By paying attention to what is being communicated to you, you can remember what is being said and show interest by communicating or asking questions about what you want to know more about. Your phone friend and anyone you interact with will truly appreciate the interest you show. This is the foundation of any new relationship and it’s especially important to a phone relationship as the key element is speaking and listening to one another.
Practicing active listening can strengthen your relationships and help you in many ways. A good way to practice is through these adult chat lines. There are many people you can interact with and build your listening skills while gaining new friends. It’s simple to join the chat lines as all you need to do is call.
Sex is awesome and that’s a pretty awesome reason to have it, but there are real science based facts that prove sex is good to have for a host of other reasons. So lets start out with a fact. Sex feels good. One of the reasons that sex feels so good is that our brain releases dopamine while we have it. We’ve talked multiple times about the brain and sex in our blogs, but we will reiterate here that it is our biggest sexual organ!
Awesome Reasons To Have Sex
And when you call in for a sexy phone session, you are using your entire brain in the process. Talking about sex gets our noggin firing on all fronts, so it can be extra pleasurable in the end.
Another really cool fact backed by science, is that people that have sex a few times a week have higher levels of immunoglobulin A, which helps us fight off infections and the flu! The best part is that if you aren’t hitting that number with a partner, it doesn’t matter! Pleasuring yourself has all the same cold fighting benefits, just don’t overdo it. People that had no sex or too much sex had fewer immunoglobulin’s floating around in their system, so you just have to find that “a few times a week” sweet spot!
Having trouble sleeping? Have some sex! There is always a little truth to a joke and one of the biggest giggles you can have over sex is that some people, both guys and girls, fall right asleep after a big O. Once again, there is a reason and according to science, it’s because our brain releases all sorts of hormones, one of which is serotonin and it makes us want to cuddle or in some cases just go to sleep!
So that means instead of popping a sleep aid, you should call our one on one lines and get your hot sex chat session on. In the end it might be just what the doctor ordered for getting a really good nights sleep!
We are well on our way into 2018 and resolution talk is still a buzz. One of the big ones we hear is New Year New You. Typically that means dieting and exercising, but what if you hate to exercise?
New Year New You On The Phone
Well all is not lost! For a boring but true fact, diet accounts for 80% of the weight we gain or lose. So there’s that. But lets take a look at a fun fact and see how many calories we burn during sex! Yes, burn calories during sex!
Think about it. When we have sex it can be quite the cardio workout, especially if there is a lot of aerobic pounding involved for men and if the woman is on top or supporting her body weight with her arms, they can get quite the workout as well!
Even when you call into one of our sexy one on one lines, if you are working your way up to a big O, chances are you are moving around and breathing heavy!
So lets take a look at how many calories we can burn during sex. You can then take this information, plug it into a “fitness” and “diet” app and figure out just how many times a week you will need to bang one out to get fit in 2018.
Sex researchers used a 151-pound man as the example, so you will burn more or less calories depending on your weight, and estimated that he will burn 3.5 calories per minute. So if you and your loved one or hook up for the evening decide to get down and dirty and it lasts for an hour, you would burn 210 calories. Not too shabby.
Typically a phone sex session may not run you a full hour, but it’s a great way to set a goal with your partner to get your hearts pumping. Also, when you call into one of our one on one sessions, foreplay can take a while, as does leading up to a climax, so you may actually burn more calories during a call in session than you do during a real life quickie!
Sex education never ends. As a matter of fact, we feel its important to make a point of keeping yourself in the know and looking for new and fun ways to get better at sex and keep it from getting old and stagnant.
Better Phone Chat Sex
A great way to do this is to call into one of our one on one lines and live out new fantasies with one of our sexy community members. Below, we will give you a few other ways to keep your sex life growing and improving by leaps and bounds.
Give you and your significant other an entire night to be intimate. This can be especially important if you’ve been with your partner for a long time and sex has turned into a fifteen-minute thing you do just to do it.
But if you head into the weekend with the idea that you are going to have all night sex like you used to when you first started dating, the sparks are going to fly. If you don’t currently have a partner to party all night with, call in for a one on one phone conversation and see how long you can make it last!
Another great way to have a sexy night with your partner is to find porn you both like. Watching a naughty movie with a lover can be a real turn on and you may find something new that interests you both enough to want to try.
Maybe a new position? Maybe something a little kinky? Or maybe you can both call in to a one on one phone call and have a virtual threesome!
And lastly, do yourself a favor and google the Kama Sutra. No seriously. It will give you a TON of ideas on how to spice up your sex life both in person and on our phone lines. There are so many sex positions out there and the Kama Sutra is like the holy grail of them all.
Pick one or ten to try with your partner or pick a few and give one of our lines a call. Remember if you are calling in for a little sexy phone fun, you need to be descriptive, so use your imagination and talk about everything you are doing and how you are doing it!
Don’t spend New Years Eve alone! Hop on one of our party chats for the best New Year’s festivities with hot people from all around the globe looking to get their talk on. Seriously, New Year’s Eve is one of our most popular party line nights.
New Year New You
From New York to California and beyond, the switchboards will be all a glow with sexy women and handsome men looking to talk the night away with like-minded individuals. Some may even hook up for a fun and free booty call if the mood strikes them!
With this New Year comes reflection and if there is something you want to change about yourself, now is the time to set that plan in motion. Some of the typical new years resolutions are exercise more, eat healthier, lose weight, get a new job and run a half marathon.
Why not set a resolution for yourself then turn to our party lines for advice on how to keep them? We have people from every walk of life and just about every profession calling in to talk and they are always up for doling out advice to fellow party line callers, so phone in and get the conversation started!
Our free trial chat line allow you to be the social entrepreneur you’ve always wanted to be. Give advice, get advice and make new friends from all over the globe. Feel free to blame us when your day-to-day social life begins to take on a more robust element to it.
Time and time again our callers have written in to tell us that their confidence has soared to new heights, thanks to our party line! So here is to a happy and health new year that is filled with amazing party chat conversations and real hot one on one phone line connections!
Have you ever dreamt about getting sucked and fucked in a public place but don’t want to risk spending the night in the slammer? Role-play is a lot of fun but you always want to make sure you are doing it in a safe way on a free trial chat line. Plus, nobody wants to end up in jail for a public wanking.
Phone Sex Helped Me Fulfill My Public Sex Fantasy
There are many ways you can role-play, with your partner, in adult chat, or on a phonesex line. Do what I did and use phone sex to get off. It is great because there is always someone there interested in your fantasy. Take off your pants, pick up your phone, and have some fun.
Before I jump into my role-play I like to have it outlined with an erotic story. This is a good way to flesh out what you are looking for in your fantasy. Plus you can give it to your role-play partner as a kind of script outline of what you want to happen. Here’s the phone sex scenario that leaves me cumming.
We got to the restaurant and immediately grabbed the corner booth. The place was packed which made it more exciting. I could feel my throbbing cock growing in my pants as I took a seat. I already knew what was going to happen. We talked about it before we ever arrive.
As soon as we sat down, he got to work. She unzipped my pants and I let out a soft moan. It was loud enough for the couple next to us to hear me. It turned me on to know they knew I was getting aroused and about to get the hand job of my life.
But she glared at me to be quite. I almost laughed so hard it killed the mood, but instead I got more excited and a little quieter. After all, we didn’t want to truly get caught.
She took my thick cock and started jerking me off, slowly at first. She paused to wipe the pre-cum on the head of my cock down the shaft and then began pumping again. “Fuck that feels so good.” “I bet I can make you feel better.” She said. She looked around for a moment, still jerking my stiff cock and slid under the table.
She quickly pulled my pants down to my knees and I immediately felt her tongue on my shaft. “Oh Jesus.” I gasped. The thought of a restaurant full of people knowing I was about to get the blowjob nearly made my blow my load. The waiter came up to the table and brought me our salads. He smiled slyly and walked away quickly.
I began to eat my salad as she took my fully erect seven inches in her mouth and deep throated me. The warmth of her mouth and my dick sliding down her throat brought me to the verge of cumming. She slowed down and worked my balls while she jerked me off.
As the waiter approached the table she began to blow me again. I pushed her head into my dick and blew my load just as the waiter asked me if I was enjoying the new creamy dressing. She laughed and I peeked under the table as she licked up the last of my hot load from her face.
In real life I could never do this, but in fantasy I can. I told this to the sexy woman on the phone with me and she liked my story. Soon she asked me how I like my meat prepared and we were deep into my fantasy.
What’s the difference between Erotica and Porn? Let’s start there. They both are about sex. Porn is more focused on the act of boning, with very little dialogue that creates a story. Erotica is story based. They both have a range, from soft core to hard core. Many erotica writers start off more interested in the literary aspect of their art form. The character building and sex can come as seduction, love or lust. Porn tends to be about dicks, cum shots, wet pussy’s and big tits, its more about the act rather than the foreplay.
Phone Sex is Spoken Word Erotica
The thing a free trial chat line & erotica have in common is words. Imaging a phone session like this: “your big dick is fucking my tits,” “I just splooged on your ass.” It sound like someone describing what they see in a porno. That’s fine, if you want a quickie, but you’re generally going to have to work for it a little harder.
Most of the time you have to stimulate someone’s mind before getting them to the point of exploding with cum. Remember, you are not there in person to stimulate their member, the only organ you have access to is their brain. A sexy chat takes time to build. Use your imagination.
You are relying completely on your ears and your imagination. Have you ever had a friend hand you their poetry and you fell asleep on page 1? Then, have you ever seen same friend read at a spoken word night? Night and day right? That is what you’re going for. You need to build a rhythm, a story, a voice and do it with conviction.
“Slowly, I crack open the bedroom door. I see you lying there, in your dominatrix outfit. You have your latex body suit on, with the boots that go up to you knees. I can see your stockings peaking out over the top of your leather boots. Your bra is off and your nipples are hard, pushing up through the tight latex. The body suite hugs every curve of your body, rounding around your firm bottom. Damn your ass is fine.
Clearly, you’ve had your last client of the day and you’ve laid down for your late night nap. This is my favorite time to catch you by surprise. You see me at the end of the bed and gasp with excitement. A wicked smile creeps across your bright red lips. I love knowing I’m the one who gets to get you off, after your hard day of work helping others.”
You are painting a scene with your words and the more detail you include, the more it becomes real and the more arousing it will be.
How do you go about finding someone willing to go all the way? Are there just some things you’ve never done, but can’t stop jerking off over? A free trial chat line is great way to live out your fantasy.
Live Out Your Fantasy Through Phone Sex
What is that scenario that just rocks your boat? Are you a sexy sailor that is only in port for the night? If you can think it, you can role-play it. Take your time to plan out the specific details and share it with your partner. Maybe you don’t have a fantasy but your partner does. Ask them questions, for instance, do they want you naughty or nice?
Are you male or female, remember this is fantasy phone sex, you don’t have to stick to your real gender. What kind of voice do they want you to use? Sometimes sticking with your own voice is just as sexy if you want to keep is serious. Maybe you want to be space cowboys, from a futuristic planet where sex is outlawed.
What things can you actually do to yourself while on the phone? Your phone mate may not really be there, but it’s not cheating to grab your favorite vibrator, dildo or even throw on a porno for visual aid. Some of us are just visual, what’s wrong with that. Oohhhh, maybe you want to be a Pornstar! That’s a good one.
Phone sex can be foreplay to “dancing cheek to cheek,” so you don’t always have to cross the finish line on the phone. You can even have a scenario that develops over time, culminating in a real world experience. If you’re nervous that you may not be a great lover, never fear, you are as good as you say you are here.
